Hard To Say Good-bye

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I dreamed we were together just the other night. We sat together upon Adirondack chairs with soft green grass beneath our bare feet. It was a place we had never been before, and at times, the air and surroundings would appear very much like this photograph. We seemed to glide in-between each place. It was not hot or cold, just pleasant. We chatted for hours and smiled and laughed. When I awoke I thought how nice to visit with you there. When last I saw you, you were lying unresponsive on your hospital bed .

Last night Janet left us on this physical plane and although we knew it was coming, it is so hard to say good-bye. God Bless you darling Sister. We’ll be together again. You are free!

(for my Sister-in-law, Janet)

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Inside My Kitchen Window

Beyond the baker’s rack, the bird house, plants and books is the window to my kitchen. It might look as if I am blocking off the area, and I am from my kitties, but on the other side, where lies my sink’s position, I can see the area from there. There is the spiral staircase and hallway, atrium and living room. The dining room, where I presently sit, is to the right (stage left) and I am using the dinner table as my writing headquarters. I am taking a five-minute breather. I sip my coffee and I ponder whether or not to cook chicken wings or pork loin chops. I might fry some of both and wrap the rest up and freeze them for another day. This way I get fresh (as fresh as possible not living on a farm), and I will have secured the meat and poultry for a future meal.

Last night (2:30 AM) I was naughty and prepared a pasta dish. Lately, with the heat wave trying to choke the life out of everything it tries to swallow, I have refrained from turning my oven on and have not been using the stove often. This is torment for me as I cook, I bake. It is what I do. For me to have to neglect my inner passions is a bit difficult, but necessary. As soon as the cooler weather comes I will be taking advantage of that situation.

Tuesday Night Menu

Fried Chicken Wings w/garlic sesame dipping sauce

Fried Pork Loin Chops w/gravy from the drippings

Green Beans Almandine w/bacon crumbling

Garlic French Bread fried not baked

Fresh Strawberry Halves w/Creme Chantilly

Glass of White Zinfindel

prep time: 8 minutes

cook time: 15 min

Senseless Brutality

Picturesque and Peaceful Oslo, Norway

Up until yesterday whenever I would think of Oslo, Norway , I visualized a clean, peaceful and safe place, filled with law-abiding citizens and a calm serenity most countries do not enjoy. Cultured comes to mind, too. On July 23, 2011 all that changed. No more will Norway’s people feel secure, and they have a diabolical cold-blooded murderer to thank for it.

The fact that this man wants to speak out at his hearing in court tomorrow is ludicrous! He want to justify his brutality delivered to the innocent and unsuspecting. He wants us to understand why he blew up a government building. He wants us to understand why about an hour later, he systematically hunted and mercilessly stalked his prey of young adults and teenagers fleeing for their lives, on an island surrounded by frigid waters. He want to explain the reasons he took matters into his own hands and pulled the trigger again and again, over and over. He plotted for months before he carried out his diabolical and (yes folks … you’ve heard it from me) evil agenda. Heinous crimes against the unarmed and defenseless and beautiful Norwegian people.

I am of the mind that when someone is caught red-handed, guilty beyond a shadow of a doubt, that he or she should be delivered swift and extremely harsh punishment. I do not believe for one moment that the parents, loved ones, friends or the Norwegian government wants to “understand and sympathize” with this individual. Right about now I would like to see the return of England’s historically famous “Bloody Mary”, because she would have him dealt with on her terms and for all to see. Public execution for a public executioner. Dish it out and be ready to enjoy what you doled out. Were it up to me, I would refuse to allow him to speak another word … he’s already made a loud enough statement.

If he is allowed to spew his diatribe then it sets a tone of acceptance for what is considered a heinous and violent act. It will not discourage others, but will actually encourage more of this criminal behavior.

Frankly, I am sickened by the really guilty murderers in this world wanting to be center-stage so we can be their audience. This should be handled in the middle of the square and he should be gagged because all he would utter would be words of unjustifiable hate. The death toll was 92 when I last checked. This terrorist has swiftly ended innocent lives, ruined his country’s untarnished reputation, bought cruelty to a country which hasn’t seen violence like this since WWII, and has forever injured the minds and hearts of countless people, not only in Norway, but around the world. Like the waves against the shore, violence has a ripple effect, and that … affects us all.

Vacation Past

 

 

The summer I was fourteen (almost fifteen), and my sister Mary was eighteen, we were invited by our Parents to join them for a week-long stay at Downingtown Inn, located in Downingtown, PA, in Chester County. We were joined by our Auntie and Uncle, and theirs and my Parent’s best friends, too.

The days were ours to spend walking about, playing card games by the pool and swimming until we were exercised. Afterward we would suntan on our brightly-colored beach towels; although there wasn’t a spec of sand in sight, other than the golf course. We would get together for breakfast, lunch and then everyone dressed up for dinner, entertainment and dancing. The popular dances of our parent’s generation was within the arms of a dancing partner, and we had such a delightful time learning the dance steps from our three gentlemen partners. I must confess that each did their own version of the Foxtrot, so Mary and I had to watch our steps and our toes.

I loved dressing up and everyone was refined. There was a lot of booze being served (we had Shirley Temples), and I believe my Father allowed my sister to sip some of his drinks, too. She was after all, eighteen. The evenings were filled with big band music and later Mary and I would go poolside to listen to the local bands pounding out the top hits of the day.

One afternoon, my Father came looking for me. I had been sneaking a cigarette smoke and didn’t have time to use mouth wash, so I kept my conversation under my breath. He instructed me to follow him and I thought I was in trouble because he kept hurrying me along. We ended up at the swimming pool! What? It was jammed packed with the guests. I looked at my Dad with question marks clearly visible in my eyes. He smiled that wonderful smile of his and announced to all there, “Here she is and I bet you she can do it!” Do what I wondered.

The man standing at the edge of the deep end told me he was throwing twelve (I watched the movements of his hands as he threw) silver spoons into the twelve-foot deep water. I was to be afforded one huge gulp of air and expected to retrieve all twelve spoons. Really!

I was a bit winded from being hurried up the hill after my illicit smoking, but I could see how very much this meant to my Mom and Dad. They both wore the same, assurance and faith, shining from their faces. I nodded and every one cheered. Oh boy! I centered my focus, looked to see the spots of glimmering silver and breathed in deep breathes of air. My lungs were as full as I could make them be. I dove in.

It is true you can hear sounds from underneath the water and they were cheering and laughing. I quickly darted from spoon-to-spoon, picking up the utensils until I got to the last one. Wouldn’t you know! I could not hold six spoons in each hand. I kept dropping it and I kept after it. Finally, I exhaled some air and went back to the last one. I put it into my mouth and pushed my way up from the bottom of the pool. A rousing cheer almost deafened me as I placed eleven spoons on the cement and then pulled the last one from my teeth. I had done it! I was so glad not to be in trouble for the smoking and that I had proved my Father right. I was patted on the back many times and hugged by everyone in my party, including my sister! Woo-Hoo!

I shall always remember winning the tiny little trophy. I believe I gave it to my Parents. I felt very proud that day. It was our version (dirty dancing) vacation.  :D

I heard it burned down and they rebuilt it.  Here is a link.

 

 

Tired Of Being Tired

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Tired of being tired

Of all these trials

Spoken in soft tones

Cut then radiated

Burnt then chemo

She softly moans

To be granted release

From the torment

She now sighs

Because she’s so

Tired of being tired

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Just Ask Charley

Charley Squash is always so pleasant. He gives good advice and is ready to help you with a question you might have. Ask your question and Charley Squash will give you sound feedback.

Saturday Night Trio

satnitedinner1, originally uploaded by Theresa111.

Trio of Crabmeat Veggies & Orzo

Meat from King Crab Legs (added last)

1/2 avocado sliced (added last)

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2 small onions (chopped)

1 red bell pepper

3 small carrots (sliced on bias)

1 cup grape tomatoes Read more of this post

Sixty Hours

Sixty Hours

Of the days in a week
Fridays the ones we seek
They make us pause think
Weekend’s here in a blink

So from Friday evening
Till Monday’s dawn
Sixty hours for enjoying
No time to yawn

Grab some friends
Cards food and drink
From gardens we tend
Cut flowers pink

Spread blankets down
Sitting on the ground
Enjoying the company
Making new memories
(for Peg Buckley)

Bastille Day

Ten things to try on Bastille Day.

Monday Dinner Created

New Kitchen Toy

I just received this purchase I made online and it is going to make our summertime sweeter, cooler, tasty and fun. It’s something my husband and I can make together in the kitchen and enjoy while we watch our movies or catch up on recorded programs. There’s such an array of different choices of frozen desserts to make by pouring juices (for example), attaching the top, inserting the sticks and freezing. We had Tupperware pop makers when I was a kid, and my late Mother felt such pride in making these treats for us. Daddy was the cook. Read more of this post

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