Nighty-Night

Nighty-Night to one and all. It is time for dreaming and rest. Tomorrow is an early day but I will be around in the afternoon. I hope you have pleasant dreams and a wonderful Wednesday.

My late Mother was a great lover of owls and she had a collection of them. I want to say that this little owl is in the top three of my favorite owl picks. If Our Heavenly Father puts this much work into this little owl, how much more does He love us?

Thank You Father for all of the blessings You have bestowed upon us and for all of the blessings of which we are unaware.

Stop! Are you … ?

So I asked myself this morning whilst I was drinking my cup of coffee, if I was pleased with how my life has turned out. I pondered this for a few sips and then went searching for a photograph to express how very ‘not finished’ I AM. While my journey has proven interesting there is an empty place inside that needs to be filled up, before I consider myself through with this lifetime.

My question for you this morning is this … “Are you finished, or in the midst of, or just beginning your vision quest? Are you in the place you thought you’d be? Are you ready to charge forward or are you going to stay suspended above the crowd to watch life pass you by?” It takes courage to gear up and do it again and again and again. For what is our life but a series of expressions interwoven within the framework of our daily responsibilities? When is it our chance to bloom and show the inner beauty within? “Are you pleased or saddened with yourself and what do you intend to do about it?”

As I stared into the center of this photograph, I was immediately pulled outward toward that gorgeous pink. I felt lighter inside and hope sprung forth. The surge of energy I felt was an awareness of possibilities and excitement. I AM excited to be alive and go on to the next level of creative thinking and pursuits. I feel great and I am so totally ‘not done yet’!

Thankful For So Much

November is a great time to reflect about the direction my life is taking, what I have achieved through the year and those instances where I could use improvement. Keeping myself in check is a most helpful way to live. It encourages me to go for my dreams and yet it also helps to make certain I am conducting myself in a favorable way. Whether it be in my busy social life, at home in my personal life or mixing with others in my work life, it is extremely important that I treat others with respect, kindness, tolerance and understanding. Mental checks reminds me to listen to someone’s point of view, and sometimes to withhold my comments, in case I could make someone feel uncomfortable. I do not want to judge people. I would much rather live my life encouraging others and seeing the brighter side of things. There is so much turmoil in the world that it is difficult to remember, that even though it’s a jungle out there, inside where my spirit is hidden this place needs to be serene, creative, peaceful and beautiful. When things go wrong or I feel let down and might want to toss in the proverbial towel, I thank my heavenly Father that He has bestowed upon me the grace to stand up time-after-time, no matter how many knocks life offers me. My spirit within is what I am most thankful for.

Mondays Vs. Attitude of Levity

At best Mondays are akin to the first day of the week, a fresh start to the week. A clean slate. Or for me or someone like Garfield, that rotund yellow tabby, it’s just a good reason to sleep in late. The world always seems to be filled with a mindless drone of whip-cracking, that noiseless rendering of workers and commuters mundane and un-perky (I understand this is not a real word, but you catch my drift), numb state of mind.

Newspapers are opened quietly then scanned. You’re riding that train on the regular humdrum track toward the office or place of business. “It’s Monday folks … it’s finally here!” As if the invisible chain wrapped round your ankles hadn’t alerted you to this fact around 5PM Sunday night. Just when you had almost begun to relax from the week before! Yes, the pull commences until there is an actual, mental tug-of-war between you and your day off. Hateful chains of events are ready to whirl you willy-nilly into the abysmal dread of the work-week ahead. “But I’m not ready!” you exclaim. I know … but you can’t stop it. It is going to pull you in no matter how you resist or pretend you cannot hear the almost imperceptible clinking of the links. “Ding-dong your chain is calling.”

I’ve been there and I surely admit to playing games in order to ward-off the inevitable. Try as I would to prepare ahead, the coffee maker setup for the press of my finger against the start button, the cleaned pet bowls stacked next to the canned food and clean spoon; I would get my clothing laid out, or my chef’s uniform pressed, shoes organized, and even go so far as to line up (in the order of use) my makeup, hair products and fresh clean towels. Then I would return to whatever I was doing Sunday night. Every time that a Monday thought popped into my head, every time the building where I worked came into view, I was ready with my bat, and I knocked Monday out of the park, pretending I only had to live in the “Sunday Moment”, and that tomorrow was somewhere in the far distance. I did trick myself a few times but not many.

Preparation did help but it didn’t relieve the tension in my shoulders and neck nor the tightening of my already clinched stomach muscles. There are lots of people out there who sadly are under the thumb or at the mercy of their boss, supervisor or work warden. Why is that? Why do people want to lord it over someone and use what tiny little power they cloak themselves inside, to ruin someone else’s day? Doesn’t seem fair, now does it? Why can’t bosses or managers build their employes up with smiles, proverbial pats on the backs, feel-good messages? I don’t think I’ll get to the bottom of it today, or tomorrow for that matter. What matters is that some of you who read my articles know the shoe fits. Whether it is the shoe of the employee or the shoe of the person in charge it shouldn’t matter because I bring the message to all of you, even if you love your job, there’s a Monday out there for you, too.

The best armor there is for Mondays is to face the inevitable, bake something the night before so the aroma fills your home. “No, you do not get to taste it yet.” Go to bed an hour earlier than normal and rise an hour earlier, too. Drink that coffee, solve that crossword puzzle while you eat your pastry. Put on some music to help you feel liberated, dance around for five minutes and leave the house thirty minutes sooner. Face your day and make it your own. Tell everyone hello. Smile at strangers and take some of your newly found excitement into that building. Kick off the chains and wrap them into a ball so they will not disturb you throughout the work week. Manage your time well and enjoy being alive. Put a quirky little step into your attitude and see if you don’t break the chains that bind your mind. Free yourself and pass the goodness along. This way, you are in charge and you set really good examples to those who want to change and be a better boss or manager. Could be they won’t pull on their cloak of superiority and will choose to lighten up. Perhaps they need your levity of mind in order to see things in a positive way. Change your thinking and watch how contagious it is. “Have fun!”

 

What Is Your Thought Process?

 

Do you like playing with Glass Marbles?, originally uploaded by Batikart.

Batikart has taken a most amazing photograph!

It gave me pause to think about our minds and the way the little thought bubbles form, take shape and then are released out into the world. Our thoughts have the magical ability to create what we don’t want to happen, but more importantly, they can bring about the goodness and the positive change we seek.

Today I ask you … are you sending out negative thought bubbles … or are you sending out positive and creative thought bubbles? You decide. You are the one in control of your destiny. What will be the course of your day?

Self Examination: Coffee 101

Today I noticed the way I drink coffee. I came up with a few questions and decided to interview myself on this subject.

Question: At what age did you start drinking coffee?

Answer: I remember my late Mother offering me a taste of her coffee via a small teaspoon. It seemed exciting she was letting me try something new, but I soon found out that it seemed pretty nasty. I scrunched up my mouth and shuddered as the bitter liquid went down my throat. I wondered why anyone would want to drink this terrible tasting stuff.

Later in life I refused coffee, stating I preferred Pepsi (now it’s Coke), or anything cold to the dreaded coffee or tea. I didn’t drink tea until I was twenty-nine, and that was only because I was in need of something hot to soothe my throat and strained vocal chords. I had another performance that evening and since the waiter at the Chinese restaurant left the thick ceramic cup, sans handles, on the table along with a pot of steaming tea, I decided to end my longtime battle with the herb drink and took a taste. Even though it took me close to an hour to sip my way through two tiny cups, it really helped soothe my throat. I only drink it black or plain.

Back to the coffee. I suppose I drank it at a Denny’s Restaurant late night/early morning, after my band played a night club. We stopped for a quick bite to eat and I was feeling not only exhausted, but weary. I had been holding down a full-time day job and singing six nights a week. Seven more days to fulfill my obligation to my boss, and then I would just be working at nighttime. I couldn’t wait.

Mother went with me to the gigs, and she also had to get up to go to work in a few hours. She recommended strong coffee with cream and sugar. I drank down two cups. It sure did the job and we made it home safely, slept away the exhaustion and made it to our respective jobs on time. Coffee became my go-to drink for energy and stay-awake power. So, I was twenty-four when I drank my first cup of coffee.

Question: You have a special mug; heavy ceramic, creamy white, from Starbuck’s. Must you drink from this mug or do you have other vessels from which to enjoy your brew?

Answer: I’ll name them for you.

  1. Starbuck’s
  2. Mickey Mouse
  3. Ideas Project Cup (it shows the design after the hot liquid is poured in)
  4. L’Academie de Cuisine 30th Anniversary (my culinary school)
  5. Daisy The Curly Cat (the most precious fashionista kitty in the world)

I usually use the Starbuck’s mug as it holds about two full cups of coffee. One of these takes me through the day.

Question: How long does it take you to drink your cup of joe?

Answer: The first half goes rather quickly. The last half is the part I take my time over. The first sip allows my brain to say AH. The second sip brings out the UM and by the third I am drinking large swallows. I sometimes get side-tracked; taking care of home, husband and pets, then I end up heating the coffee in the microwave. this way I get the UM all over again.

I can stretch this process out and sip on the last remnants in the mug for a few hours, by taking tiny little sips and measuring the time in-between with reading, writing, researching or playing a few games of solitaire. I especially enjoy thumbing through the Style section of The Washington Post. I read the horoscope, the comic strip, “Mutts”, and sharpen three number two pencils in order to solve the daily Sudoku puzzle. These games are small interludes I use to relax my mind and start thinking about what I am in the middle of writing, or mind grazing for new titles and ideas.

Question: Are you addicted to coffee?

Answer: No. However, I need caffeine. Coffee – Tea – Sodas … they all work for me.

Johnny Cash Project

Here is the link to the artwork I did for The Johnny Cash Project. Once it loads you can view the drawing process. Then …

To see the entire video with his song click the word explore. This is such an new idea and I was fulfilled by the experience and proud to be a part of it.

Simple Syrup With Fruits

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Simple Syrup With Fruits

Use clean granulated sugar

2 cups sugar

2 cups water

Fruits, washed, peeled, cored and sliced.

Star Anise or anise seeds, cinnamon sticks, vanilla beans (examples of spices)

You can also add liquors, brandies, rums, and whiskies that pair well with the fruits you have chosen to use.

1) Combine water and sugar (more, if desired, but in equal portions), into a stainless saucepan.

2) Sir until sugar is dissolved and make certain there is no sugar on the insides of the pan (above the mixture).

3) Turn heat to high and stir a bit more.

4) Stop stirring and allow to come to a full boil.

5) Add fruits and turn heat to low.

6) Cut a round of parchment paper, cutting some slits to vent.

7) Carefully place the parchment lid on top of the fruit. Press down.

8) Allow the fruits and syrup to become acquainted.

9) Remove from heat and after allowed to cool down, remove the apples and pour into a heavy glass container.

10) Add anise seeds and stir.

* If you have star anise, add four or five along with the fruits, during the cook time.

Simple syrup will keep for a good while, and may be used for many purposes. To sweeten drinks, brushed onto cake layers to help keep moist. Brushed onto the tops of fruit tarts.

Imaginary Man

I’m no good to you now

Now that you’ve found out

I don’t love you

Can’t sing these songs

It would be wrong

To tease you

 

Many nights you listen

Tonight the club in Brixton

Where I’d been booked

To perform

The band is playing softly

My voice is sweet as honey

But my songs

Won’t keep you warm

 

You stand at the back of the crowd

But I know you’re around

I can feel you

The lights shine into my eyes

Your silhouette outlined

I still sense you

 

Can’t sing these songs

To a stranger

I’ve searched for

With my heart

Imaginary Man

Never found

Oh do ~~~

Please depart

 

My Dream In A Dream

I fell asleep

As if my dream

Was in a dream

And all about me

There were hues

Of greens and blues

 

In earnest I walked

As quickly as I could

Keeping away from

The edge of the cliffs

The ocean sparkled

Smiling fish swam by

 

I cast my hope upon waves

Which crested

Covered with white foam

My boat now gliding

Across the sea

I was not alone

 

Overhead there flew a gull

Who winked at me and asked

Where I was bound

I tried to recall

Just where that was

As I lay down

 

The night grew dark

And stars overhead

Twinkled to guide me

Along my journey

I was on my way

To meet you

 

Upon dry land

I walked for days

To find myself

Outside a gate

I knocked but

No one answered

 

October 31, 2010

October 31, 2010

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